The Abells

Girl Time

2012-01-26T11:39:00.003-06:00

Last night, I was supposed to lead youth group but Josiah's 6 month shots had left him VERY cranky so Daddy went and I stayed home with the kids. Can't say I was overly excited about it... I really love helping with the youth and cranky babies all the time is no good for anybody. But, it actually turned out great! Josiah was exhausted and went to bed around 7 (easily, i might add!) So, I got some much needed one on one time with my girl.

As bad (or completely terrible) as it is, I was starting to get annoyed with Addilyn all.the.time. Poor kid. Her crazy loudness, boundless energy, and constant need to do things with me mixed with my complete exhaustion levels and a needy baby brother sure did not bring out the best of my parenting skills lately.

But, last night, I got time with just her. No TV, no cleaning, no nothing. Just my girl and I snuggled on my bed, coloring, talking, and taking pictures.

Falling deep in love all over again. It was pretty wonderful.

Addi, I'm so sorry Mommy doesn't have all the patience you deserve sometimes, I love you with all my heart.

Favorites from the week

2012-01-25T19:23:00.004-06:00

Most exciting first, Josiah 'drank' 3 oz of milk from daddy without fussing about it! It wasn't from a bottle, it was from one of these bottle spoon things but it still was milk in my baby! We've also started sippy cups in hopes he'll drink his milk from there soon.

beautiful blue eyes

The fact that I haven't slept longer than 4 hours in a row (even that has been rare the last few months) in at least 9 months has finally hit. I'm exhausted. On this particular day, Josiah decided he wasn't going to nap either. But, we sure did have a great time together.

More foods for little buddy.

Love when they hug.

Bathtime is a favorite of both my kids. It cures all crankiness, fussiness, and 2 year old temper tantrums.

She read to him for at least 15 minutes without my help, prompting, or even asking. I love watching them love each other.

Cute.Cute.Cute.

2012-01-19T13:57:00.007-06:00

Yep. I'm fully aware that I've already taken (and posted) pictures of our 6 month old little guy. But, I had to get one in the white onesie with the quilt for his month to month pics (that I hate myself for not doing with Addilyn). I told myself just one. I just needed one quick picture. Well, one turned into about 15 of the cutest pictures you've ever seen. I'm only uploading two though. Be proud. You know, since it has so much more to do with the fact that I have self control with the cuteness of my kids or that the video takes up too much space so I couldn't post too many. Either way, be proud.

An update on Josiah- since I won't remember it when someone asks what was he like as a 6 month old or I am exhausted with our next baby and wonder if I was this tired with him. Yes, Yes you were... Josiah doesn't sleep much. He had one night that he slept 2 different 4 hour stretches (when Addilyn was randomly up for at 2 hours of the night) in the past few weeks. Other than that, he's up every. two. stinkin. hours. But, everything else about him is amazing and wonderful. He's eating like a champ. So far, he's inhaled rice cereal and green beans and is trying to decide about avocados and carrots. He loves to sit and quickly dismisses all other ways to play. He doesn't roll or crawl. Nor do I really see those in the immediate future. (we won't talk about the crazy mom moments this previous special ed teacher has had about regression). For now, I love knowing I can put him down and he'll still be there when I come back to the room. He loves his Sissy, even though her crazy loudness scares him sometimes and she always takes his toys away. He's starting to enjoy being in the exersaucer for longer than 5 minutes at a time. He prefers blankets, burp cloths, or his fingers to most toys. Except Sophie the Giraffe and her friend (don't know its name, it's the same material as Sophie but looks like a little person with a blue thing on his head). He'll play with other toys but if these things are in the mix, he'll always choose them. He LOVES it outside, even when its freezing cold. He is the most expressive 6 month old that's ever lived. I promise.

He's starting to babble and it's the cutest thing ever. Except maybe when Sissy did it. They tie in cuteness. I had to cut this video a lot because it was too long to put on the blog, I tried to pick out the cutest parts!

Almost 3.

2012-01-17T13:34:00.003-06:00

Our girl, the one who made us parents, is almost 3! I don't know how it happened or why it went so fast, but her birthday is quickly approaching. We wanted to get some pictures of her while we were taking Josiah's...at first she wasn't too cooperative, but she warmed up eventually.

This outfit, the settings, and her smile fit her perfectly. She likes to be girlie but really loves it outside, especially if there's possibility of getting dirty or hurt. She's mischievous and sweet. Bossy and caring. Smart and fun. LOUD. Loves to snuggle and hates to be still.

love you big girl.

Comparisons

2012-01-17T13:23:00.001-06:00

A little different look but equally cute and wonderful.

6 Month Photoshoot

2012-01-17T10:14:00.008-06:00

Josiah turns 6 months this week. We took a photoshoot a few days early because we wanted to do them outside where we took Addilyn's and it was 60 degrees so we took advantage of the warm weather! He's completely adorable.

The unusual serious face.

He was super distracted by the noise the grass made in the wind.

love this little guy

Big Stuff

Momma's boy

Hanging out with Daddy

Addilyn/Josiah 6 month comparison pics coming soon.

First Bites

2012-01-13T12:40:00.002-06:00

I was determined to not give Josiah food until he was at least 6 months old. Determined. Mostly because I hate the pureed stage food so much. It's yucky, sticky, takes extra prep, and all that jazz. But, Josiah hadn't slept longer than 2 hours at a time in weeks, with very few naps and I hate letting a baby cry it out even more than I hate first foods. So, knowing all research shows starting food doesn't help with sleep, we figured we may as well try it and find out and we started foods a week and a half earlier than originally planned. Because then, we've got to give it some time to see if it will 'work' before needing to do sleep training. ;)

You can tell he hasn't slept much in this pic can't you?

Big sis is always around to help

Happy New Year, a little late

2012-01-13T09:01:00.006-06:00

Well, better late than never right? Right. We had SUCH a great 2011. I got to stay home, great jobs continued for Derrick, a healthy (albeit pukey) pregnancy, an amazing seamless delivery, a big sis who loves 'her baby' with all she's got, and even cousins added to the mix! How are we going to top that? Good news, we don't have to. We just get to enjoy 2012 with all it's got to offer. Looking forward, we don't know what's God's got coming, but we're ready to see it!

A few things we hope to see-

Josiah sleeping. Hopefully in the earlier months of 2012
New and exciting milestones for both Addilyn and Josiah
Derrick with ONE job. Which will mean me finding a way to earn some money.

My personal goals for 2012:

Read the Bible in a year
I found a great chronological Bible in a year reading plan that I really like and am excited to use! I think connecting the stories of the Bible will be a much easier way to read the whole Bible for me.

Create a Thankful home.

Find 1000 gifts in the year-

Basically, have 3 specific things I am truly thankful for each day and record them.

Writing more Thank You notes- by myself and with my kids.

Saying thankful prayers throughout the day with my kids (and teaching Addilyn how to do the same)

Keep a Clean home

Declutter

Organize (and stick to) a schedule of cleaning for each day

INVEST

It's just really hard to help lead a church when you aren't spending any time with them and we love the people here too, it's time they know it.

CONTENT

Last year, I worked a lot on being content and I seem to do pretty well as far as stuff and things go. But, there's a lot of times that it's hard for me to be content to not be living near family (shocker, right?!). We've prayed a lot about where God wants us, what he wants us to be doing, and if he wants us to be close to family. Right now, we feel that we are doing what God desires of us and (like I just talked about) need to be more content in where we are, with the people we are. I get there a lot of times then something comes up and I'm once again reminded how much easier parenting, seeing friends, going on dates, all kinds of things would be easier with family close by.

Another part of being content for me is to stop planning. Be content is where God has our family now, not try to plan and worry about next week, next year, or 5 years down the road.

UNPLUG

I want to do at least one totally unplugged day a month. No phones (emergencies only), no computer, no tv. Just family.

I promise lots of pictures for the next post. :)

10 on the 10th-iphone and zoo edition

2012-01-11T09:35:00.007-06:00

On Monday, Addilyn asked if we could go see her Polar bear. After thinking about it, I decided we may as well go out and enjoy the 50+ degree weather we've been having before it turns to normal January weather. So, off we went.

Only once we got there did I realize this was my first time on such a big trip by myself with both kids. I'm always afraid that when we aren't in contained spaces and I sit down to nurse Josiah Addilyn's going to run off...but it went perfectly! Both kids did great, better than they've been at home!

POLAR BEAR. Addilyn's very favorite part of the zoo.

Josiah hasn't really napped in almost a week, unless on Mommy. As soon as we got to the zoo, he was out. :)

This slide goes from the top floor to the bottom, Addilyn really wanted to go down it but I explained that since Josiah was asleep, we couldn't go down to catch her. "'Dat ohey, Mommy. I do it by myselv."

A few months ago, my girl would have NEVER done this. She barely would go on the slide by herself, much less climb up the steps back up to me by herself too.

Climbing up to see the Meerkats

Look who woke up!

The independence continued. She was fine to go play all by herself, without help from Mommy or Mommy even needing to be near her.

Mommy and Josiah playing while Big Sis found puzzles to play with

A Successful zoo trip.

Both babies asleep in the car when we get home.

No Pants Afternoon

After the 4th outfit for the day on Josiah and a faulty naptime pull up for Addilyn, no one got pants until it was time to leave again

We ended the day watching one of our youth kids play in a high school basketball game. I thought Addilyn would love the cheerleaders...nope. They were interesting enough but she really love the electric guitars and drums that the incredibly loud (yes. I'm aware I just made myself old.) rockish band was playing.

yep. more than 10 again. you'd never know my extreme rule following tendencies... ;)

iphone love

2012-01-08T18:19:00.003-06:00

This week the kids and I stayed busy recouping from all the traveling and playing with my new iphone. Here's our attempt at a picture of the three of us.

Merry Christmas, round 3.

2012-01-05T09:41:00.004-06:00

New Years Day we woke up to very bright eyed and bushy tailed children before 5am. :) Josiah eventually fell back asleep (around 630ish) but Addilyn was ready to go and so was Baby Lucy. So we went into Lucy's room for some playtime before we woke everyone else up.

Then we sent the cute ones in to do the dirty work of waking everyone up. They'd both been happily squealing and playing all morning, so we hoped they'd do that right by the door and we'd be good. But, they just sat there silently.

Eventually, they were loud enough to get even the sleepiest family members awake.

Pleased with their results.

We then went downstairs to open presents. This is the first thing Addilyn opened. She had a hard time leaving it to open anything else. She LOVES it. She'll even play by herself in her own room, with it now.

Josiah eventually woke up and joined the fun.

I'm pretty sure ribbon was his favorite part.

New Years Eve

2012-01-05T09:34:00.002-06:00

On New Years Eve (aka Potts family Christmas Eve) we...

welcomed Great Grandparents and Addilyn taught them how everyone has to come see baby Jesus.

Had a great meal

and

Opened our Christmas PJ's and Sibling gifts

Then all of the Abell's went to bed. Yep, we were the party poopers.

Happy Birthday Uncle Daniel!

2012-01-05T09:07:00.003-06:00

After one of the worst road trips in Abell history, we FINALLY made it to Grannie and Pops and get some sleep. The next day we woke up and it proved to be worth the bad drive.

Making cookies in jammies. Could it get any better?

Josiah's new thing: He thinks it's fun to have a party at 3am.

After cookies/naps/playing we went to dinner to celebrate Uncle Daniel's birthday. These two may have stole the show though.

Then we came home for Daniel to open his birthday presents

And, since Uncle Daniel got to open presents and there were presents for everybody out, Addilyn decided everyone should get to open a gift. ;)

The cutest niece, ever.

please imagine baby vrooming noises while moving the block like a car.

Happy Birthday Uncle Daniel. Sorry the picture of the cake is of my kid, not you. ;)

Just a regular afternoon

2012-01-05T08:54:00.003-06:00

Afternoons can be busy...there's fits to be thrown, nursing to be done, dinner to be made, and if we're lucky-clean up to be done before Daddy gets home from work. But in between all of that, theres beauty in a wonderful sibling relationship being deepened.

She sure loves her baby brother

love, love this.

Big Sis helpin' her Momma out.

"Josighs bap wet wif pee-pee, Mommy."

Merry Christmas!

2011-12-28T19:07:00.006-06:00

Christmas morning we woke up to a very sick Daddy. While taking care of Addilyn, Josiah, Daddy, and trying to wake up, somehow Addilyn got left on the stairs for a second. I come back to find my little girl gone and had woken up enough to remember what day it was.

"Mommy. I see if Santa Cause come."

Daddy came down, trash can in hand (and was definitely not saying "I'm going to be mad if that picture ends up on the blog" as I was taking this picture) because no way was he going to miss his babies opening their presents.

We've decided that for Christmas our kids will get 3 presents, like the Wise Men gave Jesus (and yes I do know that we don't really know exactly how many He got, but we'll stick w/ 3), from us and the stockings are filled by Santa.

Baby's First Christmas

For Christmas, Addilyn got a highchair for her baby dolls, more food for her kitchen, and a memory game (that she rocks at).

Josiah got a toy for his car seat, some snack catchers, and a poppin dinosaur toy.

We were excited for our churches first candlelight service and lots of great food I was going to make but, weak stomachs won out and we just stayed home (eating very little) being thankful that we were all home together.

The day ended with Addilyn succumbing to the stomach bug. I was upstairs feeding/desperately trying to get Josiah to sleep and Derrick comes upstairs asking for help. I give up getting Josiah to sleep and go to Addilyn.

"Addilyn, does your tummy hurt?"

"No Mommy. My tum no hurt. Fro up just come out."

The night before Christmas

2011-12-28T09:51:00.004-06:00

We got home from our road trip, unpacked the car, and went to work on making our own Christmas memories.

Homemade (well, kinda, I bought pre-made crust, I knew we'd be on a time crunch) Pizza

Josiah watched.

Bet you can't guess who's pizza is whose.

Hint: Addi doesn't really like sauce if she knows it's there. I can't eat dairy.

Movie by in the fire and tree.

We had decided we were going to 'do' Santa this year but in the most low-key, unelaborate way possible. We don't mind our kids believing in the fairy tale, but we are not going to go to great lengths to create it for them-they've got to create it themselves. So, the plan was to see how this year went, and then decide if we want to make him a for sure presence in our home. Derrick mentioned, once, that Santa just might come fill the stockings while he was putting her to bed. She then went on about the reindeer bringing Santa and flying and Santa putting things under the tree and who knows what else. Seriously! The kid doesn't miss a beat. I don't remember ever talking about Santa and she only watched one movie that even had him in it.

Road Trip

2011-12-27T16:39:00.003-06:00

We made it well over halfway with happy (sleeping) kids on our way home from Oklahoma when we decided to stop for some food and gas for the car. We tried to find somewhere Mommy could eat but definitely struck out. Oh well. Everyone else seemed to enjoy their meal and Derrick's parents gave me all the leftover dairy-free snacks so I didn't go hungry. ;)

As they were eating, I was telling Addilyn how when we got home it was almost time for Christmas. Her response... "You think Baby Jesus 'ike blue ice ceam?"

She even makes blue ice cream look beautiful.

Feeling better

2011-12-27T12:43:00.003-06:00

All those expressions told us Josiah was feeling better, so we lined his car seat with towels and headed home, fully prepared to have to stop to clean the car seat. But we didn't have to! We stopped once for him to eat. Other than that, he slept the whole time.

Oklahoma Christmas-Day 3

2011-12-27T11:50:00.005-06:00

'Christmas Morning!'

And the plague begins. Yep. We did it again. Josiah (so Mommy and Daddy too) was up most of the night throwing up. Poor Guy. I bleached all the toys, tried to stay away in a corner with him, and not let anyone else hold him. I'm sure my in-laws thought I was a jerk, and over reacting but I remember what happened last time and was trying to protect them... Around dinnertime, he hadn't gotten sick all day, was acting fine, and had his grandparents dying to hold him so I caved. He snuggled with Papa, played a little with Micah, and let Grandma hold him. Then guess what? He started throwing up all over the place again. Awesome. Needless to say, today ( 5 days later) everyone has had it, and are moving towards being fully healthy. Sorry guys!!

While Josiah and I were sleeping, Addilyn required a manicure from Papa.

We had told Addilyn the whole time we were there that she had to wait until Uncle Justin came to open the presents. So, as soon as she knew Uncle Justin was there, game was on. She could barely wait until Daddy got out of the shower.

She even made herself the official gift passer-outer.

"Who 'dis one for?"

"I help open it."

"Oh Wow, Mommy! Look what I got!" She was genuinely excited about each gift and made sure everyone knew it.

Poor Josiah doesn't look good, does he?

A little playtime right before Josiah got sick.

Oklahoma Christmas-Day 2

2011-12-27T11:38:00.003-06:00

Day 2 of our Christmas celebrations with Derrick's family was filled with lots of cousin playtime.

with a little glow stick party thrown in too.

Addilyn was SO excited to help feed Micah. I'm pretty sure we'll get lots of help whenever Josiah starts eating food.

Oklahoma Christmas-Day 1

2011-12-27T11:13:00.006-06:00

We headed down to Oklahoma for an early Christmas with Derrick's family. For the first day, we shopped, let the cousins play, and went to see some lights.

Micah's doing awesome riding in a cart at the store...Josiah's still stuck to me in my pack so I can chase down Addilyn at any given moment. ;) I think we could have found a better background for this picture. Let's just ignore it.

After staring down Micah for awhile, Josiah decided he was hungry and then was out. Doesn't he does look adorable?

Cousins getting ready to see the lights. We learned quickly that we can't put the boys too close to each other, or they get hurt accidentally.

our family.

and yes, i do hyperextend my knees.

Grandma was worried about it being cold and if the babies would be ok but, this guy LOVES it outside. Especially when it's cold.

Cousin bath time.

High Chair

2011-12-27T09:38:00.003-06:00

Addilyn decided that she and Josiah needed to have chairs that matched. So, we tried the high chair. Josiah loved it. :) Mommy doesn't love the bright sun glare in all the pics though.

Pool time in December

2011-12-27T09:25:00.003-06:00

For Grannie and Pops trip to KC, they stayed in a hotel this time to get a good view of the Plaza lights. Addilyn sure didn't mind the pool.

Josiah and Grannie enjoyed watching Pops get a work out making Addi happy. :)

Addilyn thought it was pretty funny to splash Pops.

Grannie and Pops!

2011-12-25T09:59:00.002-06:00

Grannie and Pops came for to Kansas City for a few days. We had to show them Crown Center decked out for Christmas.

Even Josiah found something to play with this time.

She thought about wanting to go say hi to Santa.

Daddy even got to meet us for a few minutes when we made it over to Union Station!

Checking out the trains

We continued our day in the city eating out for dinner at the Plaza. I forgot pics of the lights though. It was cold and I prefer my family to the lights anyday. ;)

First Tea Party

2011-12-20T09:30:00.003-06:00

Addilyn has started to allow Josiah to play with some of her toys (somtimes. she still isn't real fond of drool on her stuff.). On one particular morning, we had a tea party and Josiah even got one of the pretty purple cups that are typically for Mommy and Addi, only.

Christmas Cookies

2011-12-19T09:16:00.002-06:00

When I was little, we made Christmas cookies every year with my mom and again with my grandma. Even though my kids do not have Grandmas close, I still want them to have memories of making Christmas cookies. So, this year we found all the dairy alternatives we could find and made cookies. (Mom, you're right-cookies made with crisco just aren't as good as with butter...but I can eat them. ;) ) Then we invited some youth kids over to help us out.

Stocking Holders

2011-12-19T09:04:00.002-06:00

After seeing this idea on pinterest and knowing we didn't have any projects to do while my in-laws were here a few weeks ago, I asked KC, my father-in-law if he'd help me make something similar. He was on it. He came to our house with a list of supplies we'd need and was ready to help. Here's our version. I love them.

KC spent a lot of time down in our nasty basement putting them together.

They've been up for awhile, but I finally got the pictures in them this past week. I couldn't find a single picture of just Derrick or just me. We'll work on that next year.

Don't you just love them?! I do! And I love that there are lots of extra pieces of wood in the basement in case we add to our family and need to make more.

Christmas Cuteness

2011-12-12T12:24:00.002-06:00

A few Christmas pictures from the 10th.

12 on the 11th.

2011-12-11T21:08:00.007-06:00

Yesterday was the 10th. I didn't realize it until 9pm and I only took a few pictures-they're pretty cute though, I'll put them up soon. So, 10 on the 10th turned to 11 on the 11th. Then we had a busy day and I lost count of the pictures...so it changed again and became 12 on the 11th. My blog. My rules. ;)

7am: Good days can't start without snuggles in Mommy and Daddy's bed

8am: "Mommy. I made you hamburg. No meat cause 'dat 'ucky."

9am: Nap at church while Mommy sets up the nursery

10am: Josiah getting lots of lovin' from the 'big' kids.

11am: color time while the grown ups set up the potluck

12pm: Vision/ReLaunch Team Meeting.

SO excited to see God moving

1pm: Church Baptism (while people were swimming laps)

See all those new believers? Told you God was doing something awesome.

2pm: Naptime

Both kids fell asleep on the way home and (thankfully) both transfer nicely to continue naps inside

4pm: Nap wake-up

5pm: Playtime

6pm: Cleaning the kitchen.

My LEAST favorite part of dairy free eating. The kitchen is ALWAYS dirty. Thank you to my family for helping me clean it up!

7pm: Getting ready for bed time. My favorite picture of the day.

Babies in footed jammies make them look like babies a little longer.

Today was Josiah's best day in MONTHS (and he's only 4 months old). Derrick and I both were amazed at his demeanor, his constant smiles, and his complete lack of screaming. Even people at church noticed. Derrick said it best, "I never even realized just how cranky and miserable he was until I see how awesome he is today." I wanted to cry all evening just because of how great he was doing. Thank you, Thank you Jesus.

Dairy Free

2011-12-08T09:28:00.007-06:00

In the last two months (almost 3!), our little Josiah went from being a super content, happy, great sleeping baby to a fussy, screaming, uncomfortable, never sleeping baby. We tried reflux medicine, tums, tylenol, propping his bed up, sleeping on my chest in the recliner, lots of baby wearing, and everything else we could think of. Nothing helped for longer than a day or two. After hearing some women in my breastfeeding group talk about going dairy free for their baby and the symptoms that lead up to making that decision (lots of diaper talk, no need to go into that) I realized they were talking about my baby! He had almost all of the same symptoms. So, after talking to the lactation consultant and praying/thinking a lot about it, on Sunday November 27, I cut out all dairy (and soy) from my diet. We of course weren't sure it was going to help anything, but figured we may as well attempt it. I quickly learned how amazingly difficult it is and that almost everything has dairy and soy in it! Hopefully I'll be able to add soy in soon and it won't bother him and that'll help a little bit. Everything I've read and talked to people about says it takes anywhere from 1-3 weeks to notice a difference in your baby. Well, we've definitely noticed. I even left him to visit a friend in the hospital and he wasn't screaming in pain the whole time! He didn't even scream! ;) He's starting to be able to go longer than 1 1/2 hours in between feedings and is happy doing so. He's slowly starting to sleep a little better, even getting two naps (not on mommy!) a lot of days. Nights tend to still be a little difficult, but bad habits are hard to get rid of, we'll get there.

Cooking still is a little difficult, as is eating out, going to Christmas parties, having friends over/going places that include food. But, the difference is amazing and wonderful and I'll eat my avocado, turkey pita sandwiches for lunch every single day if it makes him feel better and I love Josiah's smiles, giggles, and happy noises SO MUCH more than ice cream and butter. Thankfully, I (and my husband) really like tomato based things. We've had chili, spaghetti, and chicken tortilla soup in the last week and a half. I've also found recipes for chocolate chip cookie pie made from white beans and brownies made with an avocado. The cookie was alright, the brownies were awesome! Hopefully I'll continue to find more recipes so we're not living on spaghetti and chili until Josiah is done nursing. ;) So, dairy free is here to stay. I know a lot of people have found they can start to add it back in after awhile, right now I have no desire to even just possibly hurt my baby again.

love you little guy.

Project

2011-12-07T15:59:00.007-06:00

On Saturday morning, we headed with Derrick's parents to run some errands. Our last stop (and the one I was trying to most avoid with the kids) was Home Depot so KC could get some wood to make me some stocking hangers (pics coming soon). We walked in and stumbled into this great kid station. Apparently, for the first Saturday of every month, they have a little kid project ready. The kids hammer, screw, nail, and paint everything on their own and all supplies are there for FREE. They even get their own orange apron (possibly Addilyn's favorite part) It was AWESOME and I was so glad Derrick and his dad hadn't gotten Home Depot done without us!

MY House

2011-12-07T15:51:00.002-06:00

"We found Addilyn this little cardboard house we thought she'd like." -KC and Judy

Well, the word little does not describe it at all. Neither does like. Addilyn LOVE, LOVE, LOVES it.

Union Station

2011-12-06T15:45:00.002-06:00

After Crown Center, we walked in TheLink over to Union Station to see it sparkling for Christmas. Addilyn LOVED dancing, singing, and running with Grandma in TheLink. Ps: If you don't know: TheLink is a walking bridge that connects Crown Center, a Hotel, and Union Station together so you don't have to walk outside. Most of our recent attempts to walk in it, it's been under construction so this was our first time in there!

I knew Union Station had some model trains set up, but I had NO IDEA just how many. It was SO neat!

While Mommy had to take a break to feed Josiah, Addilyn rode this train. By herself. Without even whining about it. Just jumped right in, smiled, and waved. Our little girl is growing up.

Crown Center

2011-12-06T09:20:00.005-06:00

Grandma and Papa came in town so we took them to Crown Center for some fun!

First stop: Big chalkboards in the crayola store

Then we went to the Crayola play place that leads up to see Santa. I had absolutely no plans to see Santa knowing how my girl feels about strangers touching her.

But, Addilyn saw Santa and wanted to go say hi. The fastest high-5 was given and then she ran. I couldn't get a picture of her any closer. :)

Then we headed outside to see the North Pole set up. It was a little cold, but Josiah LOVED it.

Funniest face I've seen on him yet.

Grandma and Addilyn (who weren't loving the cold quite as much as Josiah) in the North Pole.

Last stop of Crown center: Fritz's restaurant where the train brings your food!

Daddy even got to meet us!

New Skill

2011-11-28T15:56:00.001-06:00

Check it out! Josiah can sit now! It doesn't last too long yet-but long enough to sit there and let Mommy move out of the way to get a picture!

And yep, he's still pretty bald.

Parade Lovin'

2011-11-28T15:42:00.003-06:00

Parades. I love them, each and every one. I just can't help myself. So, when my family reminded me of the Christmas parade that just happens to pass by Mom's store-we were all over it. Kids were dressed in their most festive wear and we were off.

Josiah hanging out in Grannie's store.

Attempted cousin picture.

We take terrible pictures as a couple. We definitely need to work on that.

This is right before he spit up all over EVERYTHING you see.

Christmas Time.

2011-11-28T15:33:00.003-06:00

Move over Thanksgiving, Christmas is coming.

It's looking pretty amazing and I plan on soaking up every moment.

Cousin stylin'

Thanksgiving Day 2011

2011-11-28T15:19:00.006-06:00

We are thankful for family.

Especially when Addilyn gets to help with the dogs.

And Josiah starts his day with smiles and sleep.

And Addilyn gets to play with a new bike while we try to watch the parade.

Then, Addilyn got the special honor of helping Pops and Aunt Kelly make pies.

Daddy and Josiah, with full tummies watching football.

Family day at the movies. The babies did great.

Oh. My. Gosh. I LOVE him.

Black Friday prep.

Little Helper

2011-11-28T15:15:00.003-06:00

Grannie was going to make some cookies to celebrate Daddy's birthday and Addilyn made sure she got to help!! Grannie even let her crack the eggs (she's crazy!).

Goodness, I love her hair like this.

She LOVES her cookie dough. Raw egg and all.

Happy Birthday Daddy!!

2011-11-22T13:34:00.002-06:00

4 months

2011-11-20T16:19:00.005-06:00

Josiah is now 4 months old!

He weighs 15 pounds and 1/2 ounce

He's 25 (ish) inches long (he's wiggly and we measured at home)

and his head circumference is 17 1/2 inches

So, he's not quite the giant he once was. His height and weight is somewhere in the 25-50 % and his head is in the 90/95% (what is it with my kids and their big heads?!)

Basically, he's perfect.

He thinks he can sit up by himself and tries to every time I lean him against the couch or a pillow.

But he usually ends up like this.

Josiah's starting to roll over more and more (not just in his sleep!). It's always over his left shoulder.

He's pretty proud of himself.

For the majority of his fourth month, Mr. Man didn't really sleep. But, as his fifth month is beginning, sleep has returned-think it'll stay that way? Sleep or not, he's completely adorable and melts our hearts every time we look at him.

We love you little guy!

Nice.

2011-11-17T16:36:00.003-06:00

Addilyn and Josiah were snuggling and being super cute on Mommy's bed. Addilyn's arm was around him and she was giving his head kisses while his face filled with grins. So, I ran downstairs to get my camera and this is all I get.

If you can't tell...Addilyn's inner-stinker showed off this week.

Play time.

2011-11-17T16:08:00.003-06:00

Here at the Abell house we just can't seem to kick whatever sickness is going around. But we're starting to be on the mend and HAD TO GET OUT OF THE HOUSE! But, it's cold again. So, off to the Zona Rosa play place we went, twice. And are on the look out for other good free/cheap indoor play places.

"Mommy! Look A here for me!"

It's fun to see the changes in my girl through the seasons. We haven't been to the play place in a while since we've been able to enjoy fun outside. But, this time she walked up to a girl her age and said, "Hi. My name Addi. What you name? You play wif me?" And then led the girl by hand to each toy (she was a little bit smaller) being a mommy to her. Later a little boy came up to her and told her he was bumblebee-the nice transformer and started transforming for her. She decided that she was the bumblebee's mommy and was SO strong. Little girl, you are amazing.

It's also fun to see Josiah see and learn things for the first time.

He doesn't quite see the fun of climbing toys yet.

But he does love his new ball Sissy picked out.

New Toy

2011-11-14T16:56:00.004-06:00

Over the weekend, in between taking care of sick cranky kids, we (I mean, Daddy) put the exersaucer together.

Josiah might have been a little overwhelmed at first.

But, he discovered the toys pretty quickly.

Flash-back: Addilyn discovering the same toys when she was a tiny baby.

Sissy made sure she was a part of the action by dancing to the music and showing Josiah how to play each thing. I have to keep my eye on her-she always wants to spin him to play with different toys "He all done 'dat one, Mommy. Josigh need to play 'dis now."

10 on 10-thankful edition

2011-11-11T10:06:00.011-06:00

10 pictures on the 10th, finding beauty in everyday moments.

Lots of people are putting things they are thankful for every day this month up on their blogs or facebook-here's my version. 10 (or more) things I was thankful for in one day.

I'm thankful for my kids Aunts and Uncles that love them, pray for them, and teach them ridiculous things.

"Mommy, you 'ike sea food?" (thanks a lot Aunt Mags)

I'm thankful that I'm not missing any of this little guy growing and changing. Not even when he's sick. I LOVE that I get to be home with both my kids all day, every day.

This face mixed with the triage nurse on the phone telling me how serious his cough sounded, then listing all the things that 'it wouldn't surprise me if __ happened' and if they do, go to the ER might have made this Momma freak out for a little bit.

Yep. I'm even (sort of) thankful for laundry. This week, it's overwhelmed me and not been done well. But, it means we've always got clothes to keep us warm and covered.

I'm thankful for all the new things Josiah can do. He's talking so much more, laughing, rolling over (mostly in his sleep), grabbing at toys and everything else he can get his hands on, and recognizing all of us. Now, if we could go back to the 'old' thing of sleep... ;) Sleep deprived or not, he's a true blessing from God.

I'm SO thankful for my girl and all the wonderful things she can do. In this picture alone I see: My girl who is starting to get better at playing by herself, in her own room. Addilyn's sense of 'pretend' emerging-she's taking a nap with her baby after she read it a book, changed it's diaper, and fed it. She's the most gorgeous, amazing, spirited girl, ever.

I'm thankful for a baby who is feeling better, in just a few hours!!

And, for pinterest-see my first pinterest craft back there? ;)

Look at that smile. Adorable. I love you little man.

I'm thankful to be living in a country that going to the doctor isn't a big deal and can be done to make sure it's just a cold bothering my baby.

This picture also makes me thankful for the love between my kids. You can see it in their eyes when they look at each other-it's an amazing thing to witness.

It also makes me thankful for a praying family who were all praying Josiah would start feeling better after he started wheezing and breathing crazy fast in the morning. Even if he was totally fine by the time we went to the doc and she thought I was crazy... ;)

I'm thankful for messes because that means my kid is learning, growing, and having fun.

I may have overcooked the homemade finger paint (thanks again, pinterest) which creates more of a playdough sensation for my girl

I'm amazingly thankful for this guy. The best husband and Daddy you could ask for. Thanks for loving us so well! I LOVE living life with you, couldn't have even dreamed up a better partner for our life together.

I'm also thankful for food out after a long day so our house didn't have to get even messier.

I'm thankful for my kids grandparents- who take the time to skype, mail them fun things, and make sure my kids know they are loved, even from far away. (Thanks Grandma and Papa for the pens and stickers, Addilyn thinks they are pretty awesome. )

Sibling love.

2011-11-09T15:16:00.002-06:00

"Mommy! Take picksh! Addi say cheese wif Josigh."

"No more cheese. Addi done."

Oh Sissy.

ha. they don't look anything alike, do they? ;)

Silver Dollar City

2011-11-08T10:35:00.004-06:00

The main point of meeting the family in Branson was to head to Silver Dollar City and see the gorgeous lights. We were also thinking that the weekend closest to Halloween would probably be the least crowded time to ring in the Christmas Cheer. Boy, were we wrong. It was INSANE! We didn't stay too long thanks to crowds, cold air, and cranky babies but we did have a pretty good time.

Addilyn did AWESOME.

Josiah did pretty well. We hung out at the nursing station a lot. ;)

Grannie and Addi waiting for the parade to start

The Parade

A few attempts of family pictures. Addilyn was much more interested in dancing to the music and lights than taking pictures.

Cousins

2011-11-08T10:23:00.004-06:00

Cousins together!

Addilyn:2.5 years

Lucy: 7.5 months

Josiah: 3.5 months

Playtime

Then Lucy got fancy showing off her army crawl.

Nothing like a good ole cousin bathtime.

Kids, don't hate me in 15 years for taking these pictures and posting them online. I just couldn't help myself.

Christmas Card Picture attempt:

Josiah wasn't too excited about the bumbo on the swing.

He was much happier snuggling with Sissy.

Last picture of the weekend, cousins on the big rocking chair.

Trick or treating, take 1 (back blogging #4)

2011-11-07T13:05:00.004-06:00

Downtown Washington (where Grannie's store, Addi's is) has trick or treating through the stores the Friday before Halloween. How fun that we got to take part this year! :)

Addilyn, my pretty butterfly.

After seeing everyone check out how their clothes look in the mirrors, she walked straight to that mirror to see how wonderful she looked.

"Trick-Treat"

Trick or Treating with Aunt Maggie and Pops

After being in the crowds and collecting some candy, Addilyn was happy to help Grannie pass out candy to the other kids! She even made the Washington newspaper since she was so cute.

Cardinal and Family Lovin' (back blogging #3)

2011-11-07T12:36:00.004-06:00

While we were in Washington/St. Louis, the Cardinals were in AND WON the World Series. So we spent a lot of time in our Cardinals gear.

Family lunch at Panera after the crazy game 6.

Addilyn was SO excited to see Lucy. She also wanted to wear her pumpkin shirt instead of Cardinals. ;)

A blow-out diaper (while in the sling attached to me) later...Josiah changed outfits and was named 'The Rally Squirrel' by random strangers at Panera. He sure did have fun with Great Grandmother though!

Great Grandmother and Grannie with the littlest Grandbabies

Grannie and Lucy

Pumpkin Carving (back blogging #2)

2011-11-07T09:47:00.003-06:00

During our few days at Grannie and Pops, Addilyn's opinion on pumpkin carving changed drastically.

First attempt, happy to tell Pops what to do

"happy face WITH ears"

from a distance so she didn't get grossey.

To trying to cut the dirt off with her own pumpkin carving kit she definitely felt like she was getting away with something holding a 'knife'. (it wasn't a real knife)

To convincing Pops to use her cleaned off pumpkin to carve another face.

She helped this time.

All the way to playing with the pumpkin insides.

Back Blogging, #1

2011-11-06T19:29:00.002-06:00

Yay! My camera is back! :)

After a long (and completely awful) drive we finally got to Grannie and Pops house!

Mr Man is still trying to decide if toys excite him or not (in the last week, he's started to decide they do-remember we're doing this backwards).

Love this.

Halloween 2011

2011-11-01T09:42:00.006-05:00

I left my good camera at mom and dad's house...so check back next week for some out of order pictures of some great family fun. For now, Halloween pics (thankfully I still had my old one!). :) I really wanted to do something super cute and themed for Addilyn and Josiah, then I remembered we're cheap, Josiah can't even eat candy, and Addilyn loves putting on her wings and being 'a pretty butterfly' around the house. So, a butterfly and PJ's it is!

Josiah was super excited about trick-or-treating and seeing friends.

Little Miss Butterfly really was excited and because of that-I couldn't get a good picture of the front of her.

Notice the socks? She refused white ones.

We'd go trick-or-treating every year just for this. An undeniable excuse to invite yourself over and be with great friends. They held hands for at least a block.

Play time (with candy, of course) once their legs got tired.

He woke up and had a great time eating. ;)

Daddy's little helper

2011-10-30T17:31:00.003-05:00

Grandma and Papa got Addilyn her own rake so she could help Daddy-we put it to good use! :)

Anyone else notice that despite all those leaves on the ground...our tree is still full of them?

All that work needed a little playtime too.

Pumpkin Patch 2011

2011-10-30T16:20:00.004-05:00

My two sweet 'little pumpkins'.

Hayride out to the pumpkin patch

Aunt Maggie got to come with us too!

Out at the patch. Notice my girl's face? Yep. the pumpkins were 'too grossey' to pick up. They had dirt on them! And she wasn't too happy to walk by herself with the vines all over.

But she was happy to pick out some previously cleaned pumpkins set out for display.

And she loved seeing the animals.

Fun with Maggie

2011-10-29T18:53:00.006-05:00

While rest of the (crazy) family when camping for the weekend, Aunt Maggie came to see us for a few days! We were SO excited to spend time with her.

So, what to do for a day of fun?

Show Aunt Mas this guy.

"MY polar bear!" ~Addilyn

Blue Eyed Baby lookin a little extra blue eyed when all snuggled up in his blanket.

Then off to the Carousel.

A little snuggle time.

And of course the train!

Aunt Maggie-another St. Louis zoo enthusiast agreed that the KC zoo is more a pretty park with some animals than a zoo, when compared but we had a great time anyways.

Videos

2011-10-17T11:18:00.002-05:00

I'm so thankful Derrick decided to take video of the Christmas cousin photo shoot instead of just still pictures because this is completely, wonderfully adorable. Turn the volume up!

In case you couldn't hear/understand my girl:

"I right here Josigh. This baby and Addi right here. It ok."

just the boys.

2011-10-17T11:00:00.007-05:00

Over the weekend we got a lot more pictures of 'just the boys' that didn't include Addilyn than expected...2 year olds and their opinions! ;) They did turn out pretty cute though!

Addilyn was super cute when Candace, Justin, and Micah first pulled into the driveway. She hopped right in the car and gave Micah and kiss on the cheek.

"Dat my baby cous Miked. I kiss Josigh 'ike 'dat."

Sister, Brother and their boys

Sizing each other up

Each baby and their preferred play method

love this picture

'why are you crying Josiah?'

baby tushies

*we were talking about how naked baby pictures are more distracting than if you just took a picture of the baby with a diaper on-then this picture happened.

Cute baby boys

A baby for each grandparent

Grandma got them a matching outfit

I LOVE being an aunt to Micah (and LUCY!)! It's such a precious gift. So bummed I don't live close to either of my kids cousins (or my niece and nephew).

all together.

2011-10-17T10:47:00.006-05:00

We're all together-right before Addilyn escaped.

Cousin Pictures. Coming to a Christmas card near you.

Fun at the park

This is the best picture I have of Grandma and Grandpa with all three kids.

Giving a little cousin love

Family Fun

2011-10-17T10:24:00.007-05:00

A little Saturday fun together:

Picking out a pumpkin to decorate

Josiah was sleeping or eating the whole time. :)

The eating is why I don't have too many pics of the day or of Addilyn playing and having a good time.

Enjoying the Botanical Gardens

Addilyn got a little time with Aunt Candace and Grandma all to herself to plant some flowers. She sure enjoyed being reminded what it was like back when she was the only kid around.

10 on 10

2011-10-10T19:31:00.006-05:00

10 pictures on the 10th. Finding beauty in everyday moments.

Books with Daddy before he heads to work

Mommy gets time to plan out the week.

Sesame Street (aka "Abby Elmo!")

Grocery Shopping-

There's not much room for groceries with both of them in there.

The pretzel became lunch (at least she ate!).

All day she wanted her Bible close (a better parenting moment than her lunch).

Nap time.

I was going to be super productive during nap time today, but Mr Man couldn't seem to stay asleep without Mommy. I just had to help him out.

Sometimes while eating, Josiah takes a break to give me big smiles or just stare me down.

Time to play outside.

All these leaves are in our front yard and I don't notice a single missing leaf from our trees.

I see lots of raking in our future.

Extra picture from the day:

"Oh no! I need go potty."

Attempt at a bottle, again. No go, but a good try.

Almost a 1/4 oz dripped into his mouth.

Sweet smiles to Mommy and Addilyn before bed time.

Fall

2011-10-09T13:14:00.005-05:00

While we were at the zoo, we found a little corner to take a few true fall pictures. Fall is the Abell's favorite season. It's easy to see why.

Addilyn sure loved her Daddy being with us.

*Don't mind the scratch on Addilyn's lip. She and the driveway had a bit of a fight. The driveway won. She looks WAY better than she did-her lip used to be two or three times it's normal size.

We take Daddy to the zoo!

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Little Man ready for a day at the zoo.

Addilyn's goal of this zoo trip: See Clifford, the polar bear, and elephants WITH DADDY. Your wish is our command little girl. Even though we didn't get any pictures of her, we did get to watch Nikita (the polar bear) do some great tricks.

A little Father/Son time

Last thing we do-the Carousel

Blowing kisses to Daddy

Fun Box

2011-10-09T06:29:00.003-05:00

Earlier in the week, Grannie told Addilyn that she was going to mail her a box so when Daddy came home from work and showed Addilyn the box on the porch, she couldn't have been more excited! She did just wake up from a nap (the reason for the lack of pants) so 'couldn't have been more excited' was less overt excitement and more of actually waking up and not needing snuggles and milk. :)

Her favorite thing in the box, the magnetic puzzle. A Close second-her dress with Bella on it. Pictures to come soon for the dress,

Josiah's favorite- the MIZZOU tiger. Funny how Daddy 'put it away' real fast.

Park Days

2011-10-08T20:37:00.003-05:00

We've had a few 'we HAVE to get out of this house right NOW' days this week. Side-Note: NOW is a relative term...in Addilyn language it means something like finally-ready to-leave-in-2-hours-right-when-Josiah-is-hungry-again. Have I mentioned how thankful I am that we don't have to be ready for me to go to work early every morning? It would add a lot of stress to our lives! Anyway, on to the gorgeous day at the park!

Josiah loves it.

Addilyn's getting BIG! She'll play all by herself!

Little Man doesn't mind that he still needs to stay close to Mommy.

Not the greatest picture-but look how far away she'll play from us! She won't be this far away from me while we're home, but outside at a park she does great, for a little while.

A little while is over. :)

Videos

2011-10-04T15:37:00.004-05:00

Grandma and Papa's skype has been out for a few weeks so they haven't gotten to see the kids in movement much lately. So, these are for them. Well, and anyone else who hasn't seen them in awhile!

Last week, when Josiah was feeling so sick, we learned he had some pretty serious reflux that gets extra bad when he lays down flat. So, we've started playing less and less on his playmat and more on his bouncy seat where his head is elevated a little bit. Daddy is so proud he's learning how to 'spike' already.

*all the extra toys are from Addi. :)

Trying to get some tummy time in...He's pretty good about lifting his head, you can't really tell here because the lighting is terrible but, his head is up. Our little guy sure is loved even is sissy thinks 'the poo-poo song' is a good choice to serenade him with.

Attention Span

2011-10-04T15:15:00.004-05:00

Some days, I'm impressed by how long my 2 year old's attention span is. Other days, she bounces from thing faster than I can even figure out what she's doing. This particular day...I was trying as hard as I could to get a picture of her (because she looked completely adorable) but she was busy jumping around from toy to toy.

"I too busy say cheese right now."

She's started to 'read' to us too.

Before I finally took video instead of still pictures she was telling me that the 'little horsey sit on Josigh. Addi tell horsey GET OFF JOSIGH. Josigh big sis help.' This time, the story is about the horsey (which is really a reindeer) sitting on Daddy's little friends. The whole story takes place on the first page. Two year olds have short attention spans people!

Prepare yourself.

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for pictures of the cutest baby boy you've ever seen.

FALL!!

2011-10-02T17:47:00.005-05:00

Friday afternoon brought a great come back for our kids. Hallelujah! So, we went right off to seeing the beautiful fall colors that are starting to take over.

Mommy and Addi

Daddy with his kiddos.

Then, on Saturday morning, the kids and I headed to our only (so far) true Kansas City tradition. The Gladfest parade. We've gone every year we've lived here and I love it. It makes me feel back in Washington with all the parades I grew up watching.

Josiah was fussy most of the time and I couldn't figure out why...now I look at this picture and totally understand. We'll sit in the shade next year Buddy. Addilyn became quite the candy collector. She was able to spot people who were bringing her candy and just open her bag up for them. ;)

Daddy was busy with meetings during the parade. Poor guy tried to get to us but by then the roads were all blocked off and it was impossible. But, he was home ready to play when we got home!

Sunday was the 5 year anniversary of our church, Fellowship of Grace.

It's amazing to think how much our (and SO many other peoples) lives have changes in those 5 years. It's also amazing at how little time I had to take pictures of the festivities while chasing after two kids!

So, here's all you get:

A picture of Addilyn ready to eat.

And one of Josiah getting loved on by some of our youth kids.

What a week!

2011-09-30T15:44:00.003-05:00

This picture explains our week fairly well.

Except Josiah spent a lot of his awake hours screaming, poor little guy. Josiah's felt awful. Addilyn has either felt badly too or just struggles with Josiah getting nearly all of the attention because he's sick. Either way, she's had a bit of a rough week.

But, there have been some pretty great glimmers of light this week too!

The trees are changing and Addilyn even notices (and LOVES) it this year! "Mommy! Mommy! Look! Trees so pretty!" "Mommy, look my side! My side has yellow tree! Red tree! Green tree no pretty yet."
Josiah's spent a lot of the week in jammies or onesies. And, even though there are so many seriously cute baby clothes, nothing is quite as fantastic as a baby in jammies.
I've gotten lots of snuggle time in.
When Josiah is feeling good, he's all smiles!
I'm reminded how amazingly blessed and thankful I am that I get to stay home with my kids. The stress of sick kids is just magnified when you have to figure out when it's ok to go to the babysitter or how many days off you have to use. Even though they're cranky and don't feel good, there's no where else I'd rather be. Except maybe living closer to family...or on a 20 minute escape to go get a white chocolate pumpkin spice latte.
Addilyn wants to learn a little more everyday. Example: Our breakfast conversation this morning... "When I get big, I have big teeth. How 'dat happen, Mommy?"

Our Girl.

2011-09-28T10:15:00.006-05:00

My daughter has so many amazing qualities...she's smart, funny, tells great stories, makes friends easily, thrives on routine, is the world's best snuggler...I could go on and on. But, she's also the most beautiful, wonderful two and a half year old ("I two half. Next I be big I be six half.") I've ever seen. I can't show you all her amazing things by picture, but the beauty is easy to prove. :)

Don't you just LOVE her new favorite hairstyle? Pigtail french braids! My favorite!

GG and PPa

2011-09-27T16:15:00.003-05:00

While Grandma and Papa were here, we made a short road trip to Topeka to meet up with GG and Ppa! My kids are pretty seriously blessed...they have ALL of their grandparents AND Great Grandparents here to bless and love them! We are so thankful!

4 Generations of Abell Men

holding each other up, apparently.

The girls

Papa and Josiah

2011-09-27T15:57:00.002-05:00

It's super cute to watch Papa play with Josiah! I don't remember him playing like this as much with Addilyn-I think rest of us were up in her face too much, he didn't get any time! Now, Addilyn distracts the rest of us and Papa gets in some baby time. Josiah loves it too. :)

I tried!

2011-09-27T15:49:00.002-05:00

Here is me trying to get a good picture of Grandma with the kids...

First try: no one looks.

Take 2: Josiah looks straight at me

Attempt #3: Addilyn looks!

And..last try: Grandma looks at the camera, the kids are over it.

Can't say I didn't try! :)

Photo shoot with Grandma

2011-09-27T15:40:00.003-05:00

One afternoon while Grandma and Grandpa were here, I watched one of Addilyn's friends from church. While I was playing with the girls, Grandma got to enjoy this smile session with Josiah-lucky for us, her camera is never far away! :)

Taking Grandma to the zoo

2011-09-23T07:02:00.004-05:00

Josiah patiently waiting for Grandma and Grandpa to get here. Then he fell asleep about 10 minutes before they arrived.

Thursday morning.

If you know anything about Derrick's parents...you know this scene is really unusual. Usually, they are up early 'trying' to be quiet (i think secretly, they are making a little noise hoping someone wakes up soon!) while they get dressed and ready for the day. Josiah's decided sleeping all night sounds fun (YAY!) which is making him wake up earlier...and Addilyn woke up early saying, "the sun wake up tiny? addi see mama, papa now? go zoo? see polar bear swim like fish?"

Off to the zoo!

Papa stayed behind and built us a fence..pictures of that coming soon.

First stop at the zoo-the Polar Bear.

Then onto the carousel

Cute Baby.

Choo-Choo rides

While Addilyn and Mommy took a break from seeing animals to play on the playground, Grandma got some Josiah time in while Addilyn was occupied. ;)

Last thing to do for the day-ride the carousel, again.

This time with Mommy and Josiah too. :)

Mommy was ordered to RIDE, so Grandma (excitedly I might add) got to hold Josiah and stand next to Addi.

We were at the zoo from 10am-4pm with perfect kids. Didn't hear a whine all day!! What a fun day to share with Grandma! :)

2 Months!

2011-09-20T07:46:00.004-05:00

On Sunday, Josiah turned 2 months old then on Monday, he turned 9 weeks! So, whichever one sounds younger, that's how old our little guy is! ;) Either way-here's a little update on Josiah.

He smiles more and more now.

He weighed 12 lbs 10.5 oz last week.

He's starting to laugh a little bit.

His best big smiles have yet to be photographed.

He's still a Momma's only boy, refusing all paci's and bottles.

He is cooing a lot these days, it's completely adorable.

He gets cuter everyday.

In an attempt to learn Mr's schedule, I've written down everytime he eats and sleeps so I know what to expect (or when we could plan an hour long date sometime) and I've found...NOTHING. He hasn't done the same thing two days in a row. He usually sleeps an hour in the morning and at least 2 in the afternoon. Usually he goes 2 hours between feedings but, sometimes it's just 1 hour, and sometimes (if we're lucky) 3 hours. That's the closest thing to a schedule I've got.

With Addi-that would have driven me CRAZY. Now, I don't mind at all!! While I would like to know a time when we could get away for an hour when he won't need to eat or teach him how to take a bottle sometimes but, we'll get there someday. I'm in no rush. We're loving where we're at right now.

His sister is still doing great with him.

She sings Josiah when he's sad, snuggles in with him when he's on the floor, and follows wherever he is around the house because "Josigh miss big sis".

Girly.

2011-09-18T18:27:00.002-05:00

I've noticed lately there's a trend in many parents to avoid princess talk and things 'too girly' for their little girls in fear that they'll grow up to think they can only do girly things and need a man around. Well, I understand that but...our girl is girly. She wants tutu's, bows (when she chooses), pink, and princesses. She firmly believes blue and green are colors for Daddy and Josiah and pink and purple are Mommy and Addi colors. While she doesn't need anyone but Christ to be part of this world and I'll support her if she wants to be a dancer, construction worker, or anything in between, she can be as girly as she wants with my backing 100% and I'll pray for a great husband for her everyday. Because in this house, we believe in fairy tales. We believe in princes on white horses who love Jesus, their wives, and their families in that order and we believe our daughter deserves such a prince. So, in an effort to allow my daughter to be be confident in her girly (or not, if it changes) personality we wear tutu's to church. And, she looks pretty amazingly cute.

Another thing I'll be thankful of someday I'm sure...my girl knows what she wants.

I told her we needed to do her hair for church. So, she requested "one big one Mommy." So, I made a ponytail. Then, we needed "One, two, Mommy." So, we added pigtails. "No, one two braids, Mommy." We made the pigtails braids. "No! Pink pony, Mommy. Pink Match." So, we added pink ponytail holders to the blue (that were chosen earlier because they matched) and I tried to put her new big sister bow on the top by the first ponytail. "NOOOO! 'Dat have yellow, Mommy. Yellow no match. One, two bows Mommy." So, we pinned the previously cute pigtail braids up with her two smaller big sister bows. And, that crazy hairstyle didn't come out until after her nap!

Family Date Night

2011-09-18T16:04:00.004-05:00

Daddy has been a little CRRRAAZZZYYY busy lately. So, Thursday night we took a gift card and headed out to dinner where there weren't any distractions or places to do work for a little bit. Even with the 4 trips I made to the bathroom to nurse Josiah and take Addilyn to the potty-it was fantastic!

The kids both loved the quality time they got with their Daddy before he had to get back to sermon prep, solving the world's computer problems, and keeping the church running.

Good idea, Daddy! You're doing great with all your work and loving us. We LOVE you!

Hat

2011-09-18T15:53:00.002-05:00

This was my lowest picture taking week since Addilyn's been born (only like 30 pictures!). We did lots of closet cleaning/organizing for fall and winter...wasn't too interesting of a week! ;) But, we did find some cute hats to mail to cousin Lucy which made Addi need to find one that 'matched' good thing we already had this one! She's starting to look more and more like a kid and less and less like a toddler.

Smiles

2011-09-13T16:46:00.002-05:00

I can barely catch Josiah's smile on camera-but here's a video of some smiles, still not his biggest ones (I see some serious picture frustration in my future!) but a few for you to see!

To my kids...

2011-09-12T08:51:00.005-05:00

Dear Addilyn and Josiah (and any future kids that come along),

I LOVE that right now, every person we see is a 'friend'. But, I know that someday, you'll realize not everyone is a friend. Hopefully, that lesson is far off. Someday, you are going to learn that there are mean people in this world. You are going to learn that some people hate others because they are different and hate them so much they want to hurt them. Because I know this, all I want to do is put you in a little bubble that consists of only our family and maybe, if you're lucky, a few hand-picked-by-Mommy friends. I want you to learn how to love and cherish each person around you, even those that think differently than you or that you don't get along with the best. Your Daddy and I want to be there to make everything better, always. We want to be able to kiss every boo-boo and wipe away every tear. But, we won't be able to. Someday, we're going to have to let you out of hand-holding range. We're going to have to let someone else teach you things, make your lunch, and let you meet new friends. So, our prayer is that you learn who Christ is and how much He loves you and is there for you, ALWAYS (even when you're not with us). We pray that we (along with your amazing grandparents, aunts, and uncles) teach and show you who Christ is whenever you're around us. Hopefully all of that will help you when you realize the hate that some people have in their hearts. Jesus is the only one that can make all of that better for you, my loves. He can use you to change that hate into love and kindness if you let Him. Babies, I love you more than I can ever say. I will always want to protect you from things and people that will hurt you. But, because I know I won't be able to, I pray God will. I pray He'll use those situations to help you become stronger in your faith and be great influences to the world. Thank you so much for making my life better and teaching me so many wonderful things (even when you are still so little).

I love you forever,

Mommy

Remembering Uncle Kevin who died 10 years ago in those September 11 attacks that taught Mommy what hate can do.

This song is better than my letter, you should watch it.

10 (or 11) on 10-Grannie and Pops edition

2011-09-11T16:15:00.008-05:00

Good Morning Little Guy.

Pure Cuteness

Playing a game with Pops while Daddy makes breakfast in the background.

Shoe Shopping.

She got some great light-up princess tennies and some plain while keds-perfect for every situation.

Just chillin' while the girls are shopping.

Noodles!

Ready to go see some fish!

While Pops shopped at Cabelas, Addilyn and Grannie fed some fish!

Nap Time Wake-up.

And, finishing off the day with ice cream. What a great day.

Josiah was a little too worn out from the day for ice cream.

6 week comparison

2011-09-09T09:44:00.007-05:00

Everyone asks who our kids look like or if they look like each other. I'm REALLY bad at that-I just see my kids as Addilyn or Josiah not Mommy or Daddy or Grandma or Pops or whoever...There are certain looks they give me that remind me of their Daddy especially but they both have a little bit of their own flair to them. I don't have pictures of us as babies, but here's my babies at 6 weeks.

Addilyn-6 weeks

Josiah-6 weeks

Those pictures are the ones that I found that are the MOST alike...Josiah's still in that looks different in every picture stage, so maybe they'll get more alike or more different as they get older. I don't really care either way since they are the most beautiful, wonderful kids I've ever met. Especially when they're together. It'd be impossible to be any cuter.

DADDY!

2011-09-09T09:24:00.002-05:00

Daddy came to Grannie and Pops after over a week apart. We were all SO excited to see him!

Even though Sunday brought fall and cooler temperatures, Addilyn and Daddy went swimming so Addilyn could show off all her new moves.

Josiah got some snuggle time in when Daddy was staying up late playing Phase 10

An AMAZING day outside means Daddy and Addi play as hard as they can. Daddy made a big hopscotch course with chalk.

Kids dressed cute as can be for cousin pictures. Mommy and Daddy not so cute...we weren't supposed to take pics of the whole fam! ;)

Love this. He's such a great daddy.

Check out Josiah's grip on that toy!

Random Fun at Grannie and Pops

2011-09-08T18:24:00.006-05:00

Tired of pictures from our week at Grannie and Pops yet? I'm almost done! ;)

Addilyn loves all the puppy dogs!

Josiah spent a lot of the week like this, staring at the black and white ceiling happy as can be.

He also got to soak up some snuggles with Grannie.

A favorite at Grannie and Pops house-the Mule.

Park trips

This thing has lasted FOREVER! There are pictures of my siblings and I as kids playing in there!

Cousins!

2011-09-08T18:16:00.003-05:00

It's no secret...every time I leave Wash MO, I cry. I cry for lots of reasons but, a huge one is that my kids are not growing up with their grandparents and cousins close enough for a day trip to the park or zoo together. I HATE that. But, I do love that even through the distance, my kids know their grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins (on both sides-can't wait to meet you Micah!).

Build A Bear

2011-09-08T16:58:00.004-05:00

Grannie took her grandkids to build a bear while we were in town. Addilyn sure loved it, the other two were a little less excited.

Picking out what she wanted...a pink bear or a brown puppy dog.

She went with the brown puppy dog. Spot is his name.

She picked out his heart

Addilyn even made Josiah a blue bear! Lucy got a bunny rabbit for all you who are wondering...her Daddy wasn't done making it when we took this picture though.

She helped make Spot and the Blue Bear (it's name is random letters I can't remember-she got to type that one out!)

SO excited to come show Mommy!

Purina Farms

2011-09-08T16:35:00.005-05:00

I've been wanting to take Addilyn to Purina Farms for the last year or so, this time, Pops made it happen!

Checking out the horses with Aunt Kelly.

She got to see lots of different puppy dogs-but would only pet this one.

Addilyn and Grannie watching a cow being milked. The little kids had the option of sitting on the farmer's lap and getting to try to milk the cow-no way was my girl leaving her Grannie. She was just fine watching the other kids.

Addilyn had been waiting ALL DAY to see those puppy dogs 'swim like fish'! She was SO excited when the dog show finally started!

Josiah, as you can tell, was equally excited.

G, G, and GG

2011-09-08T15:34:00.004-05:00

Addilyn was SPOILED (Josiah was too, but he's still too little to be spoiled, right? ;) ) this week! Just Grannie and Pops would do that just fine, but we also spent time with Great Grandmother, Great Grandma, Great Grandpa, and Great Great Grandpa.

Addilyn loved time with her Gmama's, Gpapa's, and GGpapa. Amazingly enough, she totally understood to add the G's all by herself.

She wasn't too excited about the picture taking with Great, Great Grandpa though.

At least Josiah didn't seem to mind!

The pictures I have with Great Grandpa in them are blurry-anyone have one they can email me?

Not quite a fish.

2011-09-08T15:24:00.003-05:00

Josiah's first trip down to the pool was pretty relaxing.

After watching big sis in the pool all week, we decided to let Josiah give it a try.

Dressed and ready for the pool.

Trying to swim with Addilyn, Mommy, and Grannie.

Not a fan.

He loved this though.

I bet you'll like it a lot better next time little guy.

Swim Like a Fish

2011-09-08T15:06:00.004-05:00

Addilyn LOVED Grannie and Pops pool! She always said, "Addi swim like a fish." followed by fish faces and signing 'fish'. She definitely became a fish over the week! She would jump in, slide in, go all the way under, and blow bubbles.

ONLY at Grannie and Pops!

2011-09-07T16:13:00.004-05:00

I have so many pool pictures to put up, but we've got to start with this.

Thank you Grannie for teaching my daughter it's ok to not want to pull your wet swim suit up after going potty, you can just swim naked.

And, Thank you Pops for teaching Addilyn how to go pee-pee on the rocks so she didn't have to run inside to go potty.

*Grannie and Pops do live in the country where no one could see my sweet girl's tushy. And, it's the end of pool season so we won't be trying this anywhere else.

Choo-Choo Train

2011-09-07T16:00:00.003-05:00

Mommy took the two kids on the train across the state by herself...little Miss Chatterbox didn't stop talking (unless someone tried to talk to her of course), Josiah slept, ate, and looked around. The first hour I wasn't sure if we were going to make it without going crazy. Addilyn would be playing with something and every 10 minutes she'd say, "Addi all done. See Nannie Pop now?" Then we'd have to switch activities. But after that she calmed down (a little) and we made it with very few problems.

Sweet Baby

2011-08-25T09:41:00.004-05:00

Every Wednesday we head to our breastfeeding support group. Yep, it sounds weird. But it really is nice to be surrounded by other moms and weigh Mr. Josiah every week to make sure he's eating enough (I've never worried about that with him...). In the last week, he gained over 6 ounces so he's a healthy 11 pounds, 14 ounces and seriously cute.

So far, he's just a Momma's boy. All attempts of using a paci (3 different kinds) or bottle (2 types) have been completely refused by our little guy. Good thing I don't have to go back to work this time!

He's smiling on purpose now, but it's super fast so even my new fast camera doesn't quite catch the smile, just the pleasant look afterwards.

The Zoo

2011-08-25T09:08:00.005-05:00

This year, I wasn't going to buy the zoo pass and just pay to get in a few times (yes, St. Louis friends, we pay for the zoo in KC...). I just didn't think I'd make it there enough to cover the cost of the pass now that I have two kids to take by myself.

Then, we got there and wonderful zoo trip memories took over.

So I bought the pass with exciting plans to go regularly.

Mr Man loved being outside, Addilyn had a blast, and Mommy couldn't imagine a better way to spend the day (or $60).

I even got the 'Gold' pass with unlimited train, carousel, and tram rides.

And, yes, we look awful. It was the end of a hot day.

Who's ready for a zoo date?

Mommy

2011-08-22T15:33:00.004-05:00

I wrote about Josiah's first month and how Addilyn's dealt with the changes this month has brought...Now, for how this Mommy is adjusting.

I really, really love life with two kids. This is what I dreamed of. God made me to be a Mommy. I already find myself dreaming of adding more kids to our family (so all of those of you who have already asked, "Are you done now?" the answer is a definite, complete no way).

I do find myself in those moments of crazy Mommy flash forward(other people do this too, right?)... When I see Addilyn stand in the driveway, telling me her shapes and trying to count to 12 and I start imagining when I'm sitting in the driveway watching her walk up from her first days of school. And, it makes me cry a little. Then, I think of kids I used to babysit going off to college this year and I tear up a little more knowing that all too soon I'm going to be moving my girl into college. And then I look over at our sweet baby who looks so much older than his one month and I know before I blink he'll be as big as Addilyn, then off to school, off to college, married and moved away. And I cry some more. But, all with a big smile on my face. How amazing is it going to be to live those years? How great is it going to be to see my kids grow up and know God (please, oh please)? I'm working really hard on just soaking it all up right now. Soaking up how Addilyn talks, all of Josiah's squeaks and grunts, their love for each other, and how amazing it is to have them both snuggled on my lap. I'm so SO grateful for the gifts God has given me through my family. Even on days when I just want to curl up and cry with them because nothing is making either one happy, I'm thankful for these moments. I'm thankful when my daughter doesn't stop asking questions because she's learning and understanding a little more each day and I'm thankful when all my little guy wants to do is eat and snuggle on my chest. And most of all, I'm thankful for a husband who is willing to work amazingly hard so that I can stay home and not miss a moment of drawing, reading, cleaning up, changing diapers, nursing (SO excited not to have to leave my baby and pump at work this time!!!!), and snuggling.

While all these thankful and great feelings are there and usually at the forefront of my thinking, I'm definitely struggling some with the idea that my kids won't grow up with their grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins around all the time. I HATE living far away from family but if I think of moving away, I also hate the idea of leaving our friends here. So, we're just waiting for God to tell us what's next and trusting He knows best for our family. WAY easier said than done.

Here's to soaking up these fleeting moments and trusting God for the next ones!

Name

2011-08-22T12:25:00.002-05:00

Josiah's name is now on the wall in his room. Big sister helped make sure the letters were painted so that they would match (did I mention she really likes things to match?) ;). She did such a good job the paper stuck to the letters too!

Papa has to have projects when he's here, that darn electricity messed up some of those plans-but we did get the letters hung!

Addilyn, the official letter passer

It's officially Josiah's room now. Not just 'the baby's' room.

Grandma and Papa

2011-08-22T11:37:00.006-05:00

Saturday morning our kids woke up to Grandma and Papa at our house, no electricity and it still raining outside....

So, out to breakfast we went.

Who needs electricity or sunshine to have fun? Not these three!

Electricity came back on! "Light all fix, Mommy!!!"

But, since we had no prep time...we went out again and got cupcakes for dessert!

We ended the day with baths. This was Josiah's first time in the bathtub.

Thanks for making our day without power fun Grandma and Papa. I'm sure it would have been much harder without you both here entertaining us! :)

Sunday with Grandma and Papa

2011-08-22T11:25:00.003-05:00

Big storm + blown transformer = church outside. We got an amazing beautiful morning to worship outside, what a great way to see God's gifts to us!

Addilyn and Daddy are pretty good way to see God's gifts too... :)

After church we headed over to The Grove to eat lunch and play. Josiah wasn't too interested in the playing part. He did a lot of the eating part though...

After lunch and playing, we headed to Yogurtini and the frog fountains!

Thanks for coming to play with us Grandma and Papa! We had a great time with you here!